For Reconnected Parenting families, whether you have siblings at home or one child with friends, cousins and playdates

Connected Play with Siblings

How to do Connected Play with more than one of your kids at the same time

A self-paced course in the Reconnected App · 2 hours of video · 88 page workbook

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"Can you do Connected Play 2:1, or does that defeat the whole idea?"

It's one of the questions we're asked most in our community.

The answer is yes, you can. And in this course, we'll show you how.

Where you are right now

You've got the foundations of Connected Play, but your kids are still fighting? Or not as close as you'd like?

Or maybe you just want to take your Connected Play skills further?

Either way, you're in the right place.

Here's what RP parents have shared with us about life with more than one child:

  • "My kids in the morning make me want to cry."
  • "Bedtime is always a challenge… after over an hour I end up getting angry and yelling."
  • "Hitting, biting and screaming at each other."
  • "It always ends up in screaming so many times a day that I lose count."
  • "I'm like a constant mediator and I'm so burnt out."
  • "I've been trying so hard to breathe through this but I just snapped this morning."

Does any of this sound familiar?

What's really going on

Sibling conflict isn't random. Your family is one nervous system, and each child is finding their place in it. Often one goes up and the other goes down. Sometimes a child picks a fight because it's the fastest way to feel grounded.

And when your kids clash, you feel both of them at once. Their stress lands in your body before you've had a chance to think. That's why it's so hard to stay steady, and why "just stay calm" has never worked.

The good news is that Connected Play works with more than one child. It just needs a different setup, and a steady adult holding both.

In this course, you'll learn

  • How to run a Connected Play session with two or more children at once, from setting up to closing
  • How to choose play that works for both kids, even when they're different ages and love different things
  • How to be the steady one, so both children can borrow your regulation at the same time
  • What to do when it turns into a fight, and the difference between rescuing and facilitating
  • How to support the child on the receiving end, not just stop the one who's hitting
  • How to handle interrupting, competing, and "I want you all to myself"

Here's exactly what you get

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The training: Connected Play with Siblings, recorded live with Emma and Eleanor

2 hours of video · in the Reconnected App

A step-by-step guide to doing Connected Play with more than one child at the same time:

  • Setting up a sibling session so it doesn't dissolve into chaos
  • Choosing play both kids love, even with an age gap
  • Staying steady when they clash, so both can borrow your regulation
  • What to do in the middle of a fight, including how to help the child who's being picked on find their voice
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Infinite access

Watch it in your own time. Come back to it when your toddler becomes a tween, or when a new baby arrives and everything shifts again. It's yours for life.

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The 88 page course workbook

Your step-by-step companion for doing Connected Play with more than one child. It's yours the moment you join. Keep it by the playroom door, and reach for it when you're about to snap.

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A private space in the Reconnected App

The videos and the workbook all live in one place, just for the families who join.

All of this for $147 USD.

This is for you if

  • You've done Reconnected Parenting and you have two or more kids
  • Or you have one child, and playdates, cousins or friends are where things fall apart
  • You feel like the constant mediator more often than the parent
  • Your kids can be best friends one minute and at war the next
  • You want them to have relationships that last, and you want to plant those seeds now

Your investment

Pay in full

$147 USD

One payment

$197 AUD at checkout for Australian customers

  • 2 hours of video training
  • 88 page course workbook
  • Infinite access
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Payment plan

$79 USD

× 2 monthly payments

or

$40 USD

× 4 monthly payments

  • 2 hours of video training
  • 88 page course workbook
  • Infinite access

Choose 2 or 4 payments at checkout.

Yes, I'm in: payment plan

There are no refunds or exchanges for change of mind, or change of heart available for this product due to the digital nature regardless of circumstances.

Questions

When can I watch it?

Straight away. The videos and your workbook are waiting in the Reconnected App, so you can watch whenever suits you, as often as you like.

I only have one child. Is this for me?

Yes. Everything we cover works when your child is playing with a friend, a cousin or a new little mate at a playdate. The same thing happens in their nervous systems, and you're still the steady one in the room.

My kids are very different ages.

We'll cover that. It's one of the most common questions in our community.

What if only one parent is doing the work?

That's enough. When one nervous system shifts, the whole family feels it.

Refunds?

There are no refunds or exchanges for change of mind, or change of heart available for this product due to the digital nature regardless of circumstances.

P.S. Your kids can learn to find their way back to each other, and Connected Play can help you hold them both while they do.

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